80后感觉不会再爱了

80后感觉不会再爱了

青年暮气重:80后感觉不会再爱了
2013年05月14日03:49  人民网-人民日报
  似乎在一夜之间,80后一代集体变“老”了。先是怀旧。他们唱着“老男孩”,感叹消逝在记忆里穿着

海魂衫皮凉鞋的夏天,怀念看过的连环画,还有那些年一起追过的女孩。再是叹老。一群在父母看来还是小

孩的80后,在比自己更小的小孩面前大叹“老了”“心好累,感觉不会再爱了”……

  是什么,让本该朝气蓬勃的年轻一代变得暮气沉沉?

  不可否认,那些看似“矫情”的吐槽,背后有着一言难尽的青春滋味。和父辈们相比,青年一代有着无

可比拟的生活条件和成长环境,但时代也制造了新形式的磨练。成长于改革开放年代,他们的童年拥有动画

片和汽水,也有做不完的作业;他们比父辈拥有更加宽广的人生选择,也面临前所未有的激烈竞争;他们栖

身上一代人从未经历过的网络时代和工业文明,也品尝着城市化带给个体的无助和压力;他们踏入了一个有

着空前流动性的社会,也遭遇着精神上的迷茫和认同感的缺失……

  对身处这样一个变革时代的年轻人而言,生活就像一部不断加速的跑步机。它一方面代表了某种值得追

求的生活品质,另一方面也意味着不提速就要被甩下来。更令人担心的是,你跑了半天,却不知道目的地在

何方,不断地奔跑,换来的只是显示屏上一连串的数字。在这样的处境中,不管是怀旧还是叹老,表达的都

是一种面对压力时,对记忆中美好过去的乡愁。

  如果说“叹老”只是情绪的释放和吐槽,那么精神上的“早衰”就值得警惕了。“早衰”的年轻人,有

时会显得和“成熟”很像,举手投足都无比正确,接人待物都恰如其分,说话谈吐都深思熟虑。但总让人觉

得少了点什么。

  少了点什么呢?想来想去,原来是少了年轻人的朝气和锐气。年轻人不应该是敢想敢干吗,不应该是直

抒胸臆吗,不应该是敢为风气先吗,为什么眼前的这个年轻人像是从少年直接迈入了中年?

  奥地利作家茨威格在回忆一战前太平时代的欧洲时,曾经描写过一个颇堪玩味的现象:刚从医学院毕业

的年轻医生都已蓄起大胡须戴上金丝边眼镜,而他们之所以这样做,仅仅是为了给患者留下“有经验”的印

象。年轻,成为发展的障碍,年老却成了有利条件。

  对年轻人的不信任遍及了当时所有的社会阶层,人们完全忘记了莫扎特和舒伯特都是在30多岁时就完成

了奠定自己一生荣誉的作品。一股沉沉的暮气,笼罩在当时的社会之上。年轻人的扮老和早衰,无非是这一

社会活力渐趋迟暮的表现。

  年轻人有朝气,社会就有朝气;年轻人有光明的前途可奔,社会的未来就一片大好。扫除笼罩在社会上

、徘徊在青年人心头的暮气,需要社会对他们敞开更多的机会之门,提供更公平的竞争环境,更广阔的上升

空间。正如同志所说,“为青年驰骋思想打开更浩瀚的天空,为青年实践创新搭建更广阔的舞台,为

青年塑造人生提供更丰富的机会,为青年建功立业创造更有利的条件。”让年轻成为资本而不是不足,让锐

意进取、活力四射的青年精神成为社会风尚。

  “少年心事当拏云,谁念幽寒坐呜呃。”青年在时代的召唤前应当奋起,更有担当和责任感。当代青年

的父辈和兄长们,已经率先垂范,用枕戈待旦的奋斗精神,换来了令世界惊叹的中国奇迹。时代转轮的指针

已经落在当代青年人的身上,国家的命运也是青年的命运,担负起这一使命,青年人责无旁贷。
   
Seemingly overnight, after 80 generations of collective become "old". The first is a

nostalgic. They sang the "old boy", lamented the passing in sailor suit leather sandals in the

memory of the summer, miss read comic books, and those years overtake girl. Again is sigh old.

A group of parents or children of the 80s, in front of the children than their smaller big

sigh "old" "tired heart, feel no love"......

What is full of youthful spirit, let the young generation become apathetic?

Can not be denied, seemingly "hypocritical" vomit tank, behind a youth. Compared with their

parents, the young generation with there is nothing comparable to this living conditions and

growth environment, but also created a new era of form. Growing up in the reform and opening

up in the 1980s, their childhood with cartoons and soda, also do not finish the homework than

their parents; they have a wider choice of life, is also facing the fierce competition of the

hitherto unknown; they live a generation that never experienced the network era and Gong Yewen

Ming, also taste the city to bring individual helplessness and pressure; they entered an

unprecedented social mobility, also experienced a spiritual confusion and identity loss......

In such a changing era of young people, life is like a speeding treadmill. On the one hand it

represents something worth pursuing quality of life, on the other hand also means not speed

will be thrown down. Even more worrying is that, you run for a long time, but do not know the

destination where, constantly running, we only display a series of figures. In such a

situation, whether it is nostalgic or sigh old, expression is a kind of nostalgia under

pressure, good memories of the past.

If the "sigh" just emotional release and spit, then the spirit of the " www.fsbzj168.com    failure" is worthy of

attention. "Failure" of young people, sometimes seem and "mature" like behavior, so right,

treat people are talking to a proper extent, all over in one's mind. But always let a person

feel less of something.

Something is missing? Think it over and over again, he is young people's vitality and spirit.

Young people should not be brave, should not be straight from the heart, should not be dare to

practice first, why this young men's eyes is directly from junior middle age?

Austria writer Zweig in the memories of a pre-war era of peace in Europe, once wrote about a

quite fascinating phenomenon: just graduated from medical school young doctors have sported a

large beard gold-rimmed glasses, and the reason why they do so, only to give

patients with "experienced" impression. Young, become an obstacle to development, old age has

become the favorable conditions.

To the young people do not trust throughout all of the social classes, people forget that

Mozart and Schubert are finished laying his honor works at the age of 30. A deep fade,

enveloped in the society of the time. Young people look old and premature aging, is nothing

more than a social vitality gradually fade performance.

Young people are vigorous, society have the vitality; the young man has a glorious future,

society's future is bright. Remove cover lingers in the society, in the youth heart apathy,

social needs of their open more doors of opportunity, to provide more fair competition

environment, more broad rising space. As Xi Jinping comrades said, "open up a vast sky for

youth for youth thought gallop, practice and innovation to build a broader stage, providing

more opportunities for youth to create life, and create more favorable conditions for young

people to build up establishment." Let the young become capital rather than inadequate, to

forge ahead, energetic spirit of youth and become a social trend.

"A boy's when Na cloud, who read the Youhan sit woo uh." The young should rise in the call of

the times, more responsibility and sense of responsibility. The contemporary young fathers and

brothers, has set an example, with the game spirit of struggle, in exchange for the amazing

world of Chinese miracle. Pointer era runner has fallen on the contemporary young people, the

fate of the country in which the young fate, undertake this mission, be one's unshirkable

responsibility of young people.
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